I recently started planning a honeymoon for a new couple. And they picked Bali as their romantic destination. I’ve been to Bali a few times myself and even given the nearly 30-hour flight time, I know I’ll be going back again, soon.
As I started doing the research, I was immediately taken back to all the things that I’ve fallen in love with while visiting this beautiful island; The lush jungles and vast beaches, the temples and the people, the food, and the deep peace and tranquility I felt when I was in the rice fields. I was first overcome with a sense of calm during my breakfast at Balam Bali Villa (which still there!), as I sat out on the dining patio overlooking the fields. The hummingbirds were flapping around from flower to flower, contending with the bees for their sweet pollen. I didn’t even shoo the bees away when they approached my plate of fresh fruit. And they weren’t terribly bothered by me either. Everything seemed to have found its balance. Maybe that was it, Bali is balanced. Everything has its purpose and a place. Everything and everyone play a role. This was after Eat, Pray, Love and maybe a part of me was also enamored with the possibilities of what could be. Whatever it was, it worked. Because I had the most magical time in Bali, went back and did it again. And now, you better believe it, I’m excited to share that experience with others.
My first recommendation is to not overthink the length of time it takes to get there. The flights are long unless you live in Asia or Australia. Instead focus on the journey. Chances are you’ll have a layover in a fun and exotic location. Maybe even long enough to leave the airport and explore there?
Next, don’t spend too much time looking at what other people are doing and wishing to have the same wonderful time as they appear to be having. Make your own plans and cater to your own style and wishes. The reason those couples, families or friends look like they are having such a great time is usually because they are focused on just having a good time (or they are paid professionals). You don’t have to be like someone else to have a good time. However, if you’re inspired by something they do, or a place they stay – great! Plan for that.
Bali is not as cheap as you think. Aside from the crazy price of airline tickets – lets face it, it won’t be cheap. The majority of Bali based villas and hotels that are posted on Instagram and Tik Tok, are expensive. And yes, those are also paid sponsorships by “influencers” to get you to fall in love with it and say “Yes! I want to do that.” The reality is that you can find a happy medium where you balance the cost of things with the reality of what you really want to do. If staying in a bird-nest high up in the jungle canopies is what you want, as yourself instead “Do I really want to stay there or only visit it?” Because, and trust me on this, those small rooms with hard-to-get places are pretty in pictures but are really uncomfortable for basic needs like staying cool, using the toilets or keeping the mosquitoes away.
Create your own balance. What is it that you love to do when you’re at home. Chances are those are the things that you’ll enjoy when you’re in Bali. Do you like to eat out? Are you a casual beer drinker, or do you want to go to a raging day party? Are you looking for a wellness retreat? A surfing getaway? Or do you like to see cultural sites? Lucky for you, Bali has all of that. Be honest with yourself and make sure you plan to stay near and centered what it is that you’ll enjoy the most.
Getting around Bali is not that simple. Sure, a bike around your local village is an easy option. But getting from town to town is a long distance and the roads are narrow and often congested. And when school gets out and during rush hour it is packed with the other kind of “mosquitoes” – the mopeds and motor scooters. So, you’ll probably want to have a driver take you the distance.
Finally, below is a little summary of why Bali one of my favorite places on the planet.
THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN IN BALI:
Bali is an island in Indonesia which is a mostly Muslim country, however Bali is mostly Hindu. They do not serve beef, but you’ll see lots of pork options on the menu.
People are friendly and modest. But they are ready to invite you into their homes to meet the family once you get to know them.
It has historical Hindu sites dating back 100’s of years, some date back over 1,000 years (remember to dress respectfully if entering)
My favorites are GUNUNG KAWI, TANAH LOT and ULUN DANU BERATAN
Other notable temples are LEMPUYANG LUHUR, PURA BESAKIH, TAMAN AYUN
It’s famed for its lush jungles and beaches – which means that the climate is humid and lends it to mosquitos and other bugs, bring what you need.
As it is a small island, the roads are often narrow (both for walking and driving) – be prepared with comfortable shoes and clothes.
Things take longer to get to because the roads are small and winding.
One of the most beautiful things to see are the JATILUWIH RICE TERRACES – they are a considerable distance away and are best when combined with other visits.
Jungle swings over the rainforest – are a modern invention for tourists and they let you rent dresses for women to take pictures – as your driver, he will know where to take you and can fit it into your schedule.
Because the island was formed by a volcano, which is still active, there are hot springs you may choose to visit.
Shopping in Ubud and other touristy markets – haggling/negotiating with street vendors is accepted.
If you time it right, you can catch a traditional Balinese performance at the main temple in Ubud.
And watch out for the monkeys at the park in Ubud – they are very cute, but they will run away with your phone and other personal belongings!
FOOD:
Babi Guling- suckling pig. It is prepared on a spit but then served multiple ways – from crispy skin, with a side of rice, or a even in a bowl of soup. Most Warungs (restaurants) are humble and the more humble to more authentic you’ll find the taste and experience.
Gado Gado – this vegetarian friendly option.is a mix of fried tofu and tempeh with vegetables and sauce. It is served with krupuk (crackers) and presented on a banana leaf.
Nasi Goreng – traditional Balinese fried-rice dish is the staple of comfort food. It can be enjoyed with and without meet and is often served with a fried egg on top and an accompaniment of sambal.
Sambal – variation on a dipping sauce/paste or spicy sauce made differently in various places. It is not red, like we are used to seeing it in the US. It is instead oily and crunchy, made with fried shallots, chilies and a combination of other herbs.
Bebek Bengil - or The Dirty Duck restaurant in Ubud requires a reservation. Surrounded by lush rice fields, the restaurant’s claim to fame is the deep-fried duck with crispy skin and tender meat is one of a kind. And if you get there for an early dinner grab a table near the garden, where you can enjoy the food and the view. The traditional Balinese architecture is surrounded by lotus ponds which adds to the appeal.
BARS AND NIGHTLIFE:
Beach bars in Seminyak are some of the best. You can go to the famed POTATO HEAD and KU DE TA – known for their beautiful sunset and beach views and lively music/dance scene. Unlike the temples, here you can be in your relaxed beach attire at any point of the day or night. Both serve Asian-fusion and traditional options throughout the day and are a fantastic spot to catch the sunset over the Indian Ocean.
Kuta is just south of Seminyak and has casual bars and nightlife for everyone. It’s chill and inviting vibe draws in people from around the world – creating a diverse crowd of tourists, expats, and locals. The more casual atmosphere than other parts of Bali is popular for a mix of shopping, beach, and entertainment.
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